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Monday, November 23, 2015

What is in a name?



Things are continuing to progress with the adoption.  We are now in the waiting process with US Immigration.  Any day now we’ll be getting our I-800 Provisional Approval, then we can get going on our visa application, and after a few more forms and approvals, we’ll be on our way to China!

In the meantime, we’ve finalized our son’s new name!  When you adopt a child, you give them a new name.  At minimum, they get your family name, but you can also give them a new first and/or middle name.  Our son’s Chinese name is Wang Yi Nan.  Wang is the last name, Yi Nan is the first name.  We don’t know where this name came from.  In China, abandoning a child is illegal, so there is no indication of who the original family is.  So the local officials typically give the child a name.  Since Yi Nan is just under 18 months old now, he can probably recognize his name, but likely doesn’t have a strong attachment to it yet.  And growing up in the US, we feel it will be easier for him to have a common western first name.  But we also want to honor his Chinese heritage by keeping his Chinese name as a middle name.

So we are pleased to present: Samuel YiNan Weckesser

Samuel is from the Hebrew and can mean “God has heard” (see 1 Samuel 1:20 and note).  This name seemed particularly appropriate since we prayed for years for a second child, so this adoption shows that God heard and answered our prayers.  The Bible also talks about how God hears the cries of the orphan and all who are oppressed.  We know that Samuel YiNan was abandoned when he was just a few days old, and found near a factory entrance.  God heard the cries of this abandoned newborn and caused him to be rescued and brought to a safe place, where he was taken care of, treated for his medical disabilities, and eventually released for international adoption and matched to our family.  Even though this child’s life started in tragedy, the Lord turned this evil into good, and gave him a hope and a future.  We pray that we can be used by God to bring good into this child’s life.
Samuel was also the name of the great Old Testament prophet, who served God his whole life.  Despite growing up apart from his birth family, he trusted God and served Him faithfully.  God even spoke to him directly when he was just a boy and he listened to Him carefully.  We pray our son will learn to trust the Lord, and listen to Him well.
Samuel is also a family name: Gabriel’s maternal grandfather’s last name was Samuelson, and that grandfather’s grandfather’s first name was Samuel.  So as our Samuel is being grafted into the Weckesser-Samuelson-Jerdan-Hagen family tree, he bears the name of one of his adoptive ancestors.

We don’t know if Samuel YiNan’s Chinese name was given him for a particular reason, but it is made up of 2 Chinese characters.  Unlike most western names, which are separate words only used as names, Chinese names are taken from common vocabulary, so they have particular meanings in everyday language.  We were told that Yi means already or afterwards, and Nan is a Chinese Cedar, which is a special kind of tree whose wood is very precious.  We are keeping this combination name that was given him as a newborn, to honor his Chinese identity (and keeping the N capitalized to help westerners pronounce it as 2 separate syllables).

So as our Samuel YiNan grows up, we hope he finds meaning in the significance of both his first and middle names.  We're looking forward to bringing him home soon!

Saturday, November 7, 2015

Approved!

This has been an exciting week!  We got word on Monday that our dossier was approved by China!!  It wasn't the official document yet, just an email from our agency saying that they had gotten our "soft LOA" (Letter Of Acceptance) and expected to receive the hard copy within a week or so.  The hard copy is what is needed to file our I800 (the next major paperwork, with USCIS), but the "soft copy" means that the Chinese government has approved us to adopt our son - yeah!

So Monday night we scrambled to finish up the last few forms for our I800 filing.  The way our agency works, we send them all the forms, then when they get the official LOA, they email it to us to sign, scan, email back, then they send the I800 packet to USCIS.  So Tuesday we sent them our packet of I800 paperwork (and a few more big checks!) by priority mail. 

We also found out we were missing some classes for our adoption parent training!  Our adoption agency (CCAI) had told us at the beginning that since Illinois has special training requirements, we couldn't take their online training but had to go through our home study agency.  Our home study provided 1 day of training in Chicago, but said we had to buy some online classes to complete the rest of the 14 hours of required training.  We discussed with our social worker what classes to take and took them last April.  But we didn't realize we still needed to send all our training certificates to CCAI, until they told us they needed those before filing our I800 paperwork.  So we emailed them all our certificates, and they told us we need to take 3 more classes!  They were only 30min each, so we were able to finish them Thursday night and send the certificates Friday- phew!

Then on Thursday we also got an email from our agency with the actual hard copy of the LOA!!  It is a very official looking document, written in both Chinese characters and English, stating that we are officially matched with this child, and asking us to confirm our acceptance of the match.  We signed it and emailed it back yesterday (Friday).  The packet we had emailed also arrived yesterday, so our agency was able to file our I800: that starts the final 9-12 week countdown to our trip!  So we could now be looking at early January!  Yikes - this seems to be accelerating!  ...Reminds me a bit of a certain baby girl that arrived in early September instead of mid October... except this time we do get a bit more advance notice :-)

Our agency mentioned this week that once they got the official LOA, we'd start getting a lot of emails from them - and we got 6 yesterday alone!  So I guess we're getting to crunch time.  I have a feeling these next 2 months are going to fly by!  Not long now until we meet our little boy :-)